1. When you cut yourself, clean and bandage it.

2. Do not start smoking cigarettes because the boy who broke your heart does.

3. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

4. Cutting calories doesn’t do anything but make you unhappy.

5. If the number on the scale rises, throw it out.

6. The first girl you ever “date” is going to call the police on you even though she lives three thousand miles away, because you’re going to tell her that you’re not in a good mental state shortly after you’ve “broken up”.

7. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

8. Break up with the boy who says, “You had a sexy phase!” when you tell him that you’ve dated a girl before.

9. Dating your friends is not always the best idea, but you can still be friends after you’ve broken up with her.

10. Your mother will try to become your best friend because you’re leaving for college soon. Let her.

11. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

12. Your closest friend will stop talking to you when you leave for college.

13. It’s okay to cry.

14. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

15. When you cut yourself again, clean and bandage it. Do not be ashamed.

16. Your anxiety is going to try and control your entire life. Tell it to shut the hell up, because you’re trying to live and that task is hard enough as it is.

17. The past has a funny way of coming back in the form of you developing a crush on another friend.

18. Try not to hate yourself for breaking up with your boyfriend.

19. If you’re still smoking, apologize silently to your mother.

20. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.


Anonymous asked:

I hope you realize that the reason boys put so much pressure on breast size and faces on girls is because that shit ACTUALLY matters. Like, we're not gonna touch you if you look like you've just got out of bed. Stop whining about how it's not fair, LIFE isn't fair. Ugly people are just meant to be alone, so accept it and carry on with life. The girls that end up happy get that because their pretty faces deserve it.

nic0tine-kisses answered:


I hope whoever wrote that can rot in fucking hell

I never really understood heartbreak. Yeah, I knew about the bullshit in the books but until it was me, laying on the bathroom floor gasping for air, clutching my hands to my chest wondering if this pain would ever end, I never thought heartbreak was like this. I knew it existed, and it was inevitable. I just suppose I thought it would never happen to me. Fuck, nobody does. Everyone thinks they’re indestructible until that one person comes along and rips their heart open long enough to fill it with a bunch of bullshit and lies and leave it open, not offering anything but a goodbye. A “it’s not you, it’s me.” attitude that, at the time, is the worst thing they could have possibly said.

Anonymous asked:

I agreed to be friends with benefits with this boy that broke my fucking heart just because he doesn't want a relationship and I know that but he's willing to have a FWB and I'd rather only be useful to him in bed than him not want me at all. I'm in love with him and the only way he'll stay with me is if I agree to only be FWB and no relationship. It's better for him to want me that way than no way though right? Ughhh :( :(

marissarella answered:

no that sounds awful he’s literally using the fact that you’re in love with him just to get sexual favors. fuck him. i can’t make you do anything but i definitely don’t think this is the right thing to do and i think you’re only going to get even more hurt. you need to learn to be happy independent of another human being. you are complete and whole just as you are.